Comments on: Coffee Hour: The Friend With Benefits http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/ All That's Fabulous in NYC Sun, 21 Mar 2010 16:12:07 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Jenni http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-108175 Jenni Thu, 29 Oct 2009 12:15:02 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-108175 As a girl who's had friends with benefit relationships, I'd like to call bullshit. Just because I don't have a penis doesn't mean that I have to emotionally attatch myself to anything that does, wherever he's sticking it. True, these relationships don't work if one person wants more, but if you both just want casual sex without the hassle fo an actual relationship, it is great. Seriously. Some of the best fun I've had has been with a friend with benefits... As a girl who’s had friends with benefit relationships, I’d like to call bullshit. Just because I don’t have a penis doesn’t mean that I have to emotionally attatch myself to anything that does, wherever he’s sticking it.

True, these relationships don’t work if one person wants more, but if you both just want casual sex without the hassle fo an actual relationship, it is great. Seriously. Some of the best fun I’ve had has been with a friend with benefits…

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]]> By: undressingHER http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57611 undressingHER Mon, 06 Apr 2009 02:49:23 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57611 I say FWB's is great. As long as they are actually friends, then there shouldn't be a problem. People actually care about their friends. There's a huge difference between FWB's and just some chick I'm hittin. She's not my friend, she's just a consistent sexual partner. I say FWB’s is great. As long as they are actually friends, then there shouldn’t be a problem. People actually care about their friends. There’s a huge difference between FWB’s and just some chick I’m hittin. She’s not my friend, she’s just a consistent sexual partner.

]]> By: Kydnice http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57577 Kydnice Sun, 05 Apr 2009 17:53:39 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57577 Yo this is SOoooo biased and targeted directly @ men... Purposely making us look like the agressor and purportrator in this situation. I kno PLENTY of females who have friends with benefits and Love it and bragg about it. Actually i mno females in this situation who are a lot more cold hearted and feel like they can drop their partner @ any time because niggaz can eaily be replaced especially n these situations. So that being said it definitely works both ways n it really depends on who thecagressor is n wut kind of relationship it truly is. -Kyd Yo this is SOoooo biased and targeted directly @ men… Purposely making us look like the agressor and purportrator in this situation. I kno PLENTY of females who have friends with benefits and Love it and bragg about it. Actually i mno females in this situation who are a lot more cold hearted and feel like they can drop their partner @ any time because niggaz can eaily be replaced especially n these situations. So that being said it definitely works both ways n it really depends on who thecagressor is n wut kind of relationship it truly is.

-Kyd

]]> By: Ps8612 http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57486 Ps8612 Sat, 04 Apr 2009 07:25:20 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57486 I def could NOT do a friends with benefits situation! If you ain't tryin' to wife me...you ain't gettin' nothin'! I def could NOT do a friends with benefits situation! If you ain’t tryin’ to wife me…you ain’t gettin’ nothin’!

]]> By: Tea http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57468 Tea Sat, 04 Apr 2009 02:58:28 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57468 i have been here before, and i can say that i defiantly think the women ends up hurt the most. we women interpret things differently from men, so ones feelings could be different than the other. All i know is in the beginning, sure, i was like yea whatever, but after two years of going through our up and downs, ill admit i fell in love with him. Did i end up alone? sure. but did i learn something from it? of course. Ladies and men, if your going to do something like this, be CAREFUL! and know what BOTH of you want out of it. ~P.S. also know WHEN to walk away. the signs will be there, dont ignore them. ;) i have been here before, and i can say that i defiantly think the women ends up hurt the most. we women interpret things differently from men, so ones feelings could be different than the other. All i know is in the beginning, sure, i was like yea whatever, but after two years of going through our up and downs, ill admit i fell in love with him. Did i end up alone? sure. but did i learn something from it? of course. Ladies and men, if your going to do something like this, be CAREFUL! and know what BOTH of you want out of it.
~P.S. also know WHEN to walk away. the signs will be there, dont ignore them. ;)

]]> By: Simone Carlene http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57349 Simone Carlene Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:38:00 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57349 I don't play house either. -_- I don’t play house either. -_-

]]> By: Adr... http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57345 Adr... Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:21:57 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57345 It can if both parties have realistic expectations. Someone you trust enough....... but don't want that kind of commitment yet. It can if both parties have realistic expectations. Someone you trust enough……. but don’t want that kind of commitment yet.

]]> By: Aura http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57342 Aura Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:13:26 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57342 Someone always gets hurt in the end. These types of situations never work, and always end up in resentment. Someone always gets hurt in the end. These types of situations never work, and always end up in resentment.

]]> By: leigh http://allthatsfab.com/2009/04/02/coffee-hour-the-friend-with-benefits/comment-page-1/#comment-57341 leigh Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:01:26 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=6800#comment-57341 I dont tolerate any of that foolishness, it only serves the man. You will get nothing without a title, I dont play house! I dont tolerate any of that foolishness, it only serves the man. You will get nothing without a title, I dont play house!

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