Everyone is aware of this whole divorce between Tameka Foster & Usher. It was a rushed marriage, they had kids too soon, and he is a horny male entertainer. Divorce is a horrible thing to go through, especially when you are up in age. Tameka will always been seen as Usher’s ex-wifey. Tameka BFF recently spoke on her friend’s behalf to Essence.com…This whole situation is so high school, but what sucks is there are two young children involved…Read what the BFF had to say after the jump..

Is it true she first learned that Usher filed for divorce after reading about it?
DEWITT: She didn’t know that he was going to file. Of course, she knew that there were challenges in their relationship and had been some discord since March and was aware there were some things that needed to be worked through. But did she know that divorce was imminent? No. It was a total surprise.

Was Tameka also caught off guard by the images of Usher and  Def Jam’s Grace Miguel?
DEWITT: I don’t know what it is or isn’t. What I admire about Tameka is that, despite all the gossip, she isn’t bitter or hardened by it.

Despite owning her business and a successful career as a stylist, Tameka is often perceived as a gold digger. Why is that?
DEWITT: I have no idea. I know how hard she worked to build her business. She was pulling in at least a quarter of a million dollar salary working with Usher, Lauryn Hill and others, so to negate her personal success as an entrepreneur is wrong. After marriage she chose to be a mother and wife and focus on doing more charity work.

is it true that they’ve been separated for the past year?
DEWITT: That’s not true and there’s proof of that if people would take the time to do their research. I was at her birthday party that he hosted in Las Vegas this past January and he flew in all of her family and close friends to celebrate.