Comments on: Coffee Hour: The Consequences of Dating a Friend’s Ex http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/ All That's Fabulous in NYC Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:17:08 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Anonymous http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-120103 Anonymous Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:45:18 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=14074#comment-120103 I'm in a long term relationship. A couple of months ago one of my best mate's got together with my ex in a club right in front of me. My ex didn't know she was a close friend but she knew who he was to me. She was staying at my flat for the weekend and I had to listen to her after the event (which left me alone in the club being hit on by randoms) ask me over and over if I was ok with it. I can say honestly I wasn't but I felt had no right to say so given my own personal circumstances. She deserved some fun after all. However I can't say that I want to be around her and him and am having to distance myself from them both slowly but surely. I would say for me it is a categorical thing you just don't go there, it can really ruin a friendship. I’m in a long term relationship. A couple of months ago one of my best mate’s got together with my ex in a club right in front of me. My ex didn’t know she was a close friend but she knew who he was to me. She was staying at my flat for the weekend and I had to listen to her after the event (which left me alone in the club being hit on by randoms) ask me over and over if I was ok with it. I can say honestly I wasn’t but I felt had no right to say so given my own personal circumstances. She deserved some fun after all. However I can’t say that I want to be around her and him and am having to distance myself from them both slowly but surely.

I would say for me it is a categorical thing you just don’t go there, it can really ruin a friendship.

]]> By: Anonymous1 http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-97975 Anonymous1 Sat, 10 Oct 2009 23:05:21 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=14074#comment-97975 I wouldn't date a friends ex. It's just wrong. If my friend asked me if she could date my ex the friendship will more than likely end. I know you can't help who you are attracted to but it would bother me if they went out. I wouldn’t date a friends ex. It’s just wrong. If my friend asked me if she could date my ex the friendship will more than likely end. I know you can’t help who you are attracted to but it would bother me if they went out.

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]]> By: DREsmv360 http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-97822 DREsmv360 Sat, 10 Oct 2009 17:20:44 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=14074#comment-97822 GREAT TOPIC! Morecoffee hour post please. GREAT TOPIC! Morecoffee hour post please.

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]]> By: MAJESTY http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-97752 MAJESTY Sat, 10 Oct 2009 15:41:06 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=14074#comment-97752 First of all this is a good posting. I would never date a friend's ex and I wouldn't keep a friend if they dated my ex because to me it would just seem as if they was attracted to each other the whole time. Also, somethings that so called 'friend' of yours could have been the reason for you two to break up by giving you bad advice. First of all this is a good posting. I would never date a friend’s ex and I wouldn’t keep a friend if they dated my ex because to me it would just seem as if they was attracted to each other the whole time. Also, somethings that so called ‘friend’ of yours could have been the reason for you two to break up by giving you bad advice.

]]> By: AnnyMoss http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-97717 AnnyMoss Sat, 10 Oct 2009 14:53:16 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=14074#comment-97717 I dated a guy for a about a month. A year later, dated another guy for about 2 months. Later I ran into them at a club. They were there together, cuz they were best friends! They'd been friends since childhood. Even though I didn't "friend hop" and was completely innocent in the whole situation...i still felt a lil grimey. :-/ The more recent dude, who I was still kind of talking to asked, "Oh so you been w/my homeboy?" smh but it wasn't like that AT ALL! I dated a guy for a about a month. A year later, dated another guy for about 2 months. Later I ran into them at a club. They were there together, cuz they were best friends! They’d been friends since childhood. Even though I didn’t “friend hop” and was completely innocent in the whole situation…i still felt a lil grimey. :-/ The more recent dude, who I was still kind of talking to asked, “Oh so you been w/my homeboy?” smh but it wasn’t like that AT ALL!

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]]> By: Cynthia http://allthatsfab.com/2009/10/09/coffee-hour-the-consequences-of-dating-a-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-97344 Cynthia Sat, 10 Oct 2009 02:11:10 +0000 http://allthatsfab.com/?p=14074#comment-97344 I would never even consider dating a friend's ex. Luckily we all have completely different taste. I would never even consider dating a friend’s ex. Luckily we all have completely different taste.

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