Helpful Ways To Make Your Man Love You More

Do you ever wish your man would show you his love more often in terms of affection or random acts of kindness? Does he have any clue as to what your love language is? How to make you feel loved?

Many men have a difficult time showing women love the way women want to be shown. He may say “I love you” once every couple weeks, but she may need or want to hear it once every few days. He might fix the lawnmower as a service of love, but she wants dinner and a movie.

How do you make your man love you more?

The truth is that you really can’t make anyone love you more, but you can become more lovable and you can communicate with your man about what types of things make you feel loved and you can do certain things that will help him to feel more love for you. Here are some tips on such:

Help him feel like a man.
It’s wonderful that women can be independent and fend for themselves, but sometimes men really like to feel needed around the house. Being the helpful fixer and problem solver helps men to feel more manly, so the next time the DVD player won’t work or the toilet is acting up, politely ask your man for some help. You can even be flirtatious in the asking. Tell him you love it when he uses his manly brains to fix things around the house; you are turned on by his ability to master what you can’t. This will certainly help your man feel needed, feel manly, and love you just a little bit more.

Be supportive of his goals.
If you want your guy to adore you more and more, be supportive of his goals and dreams. The last thing he needs is his girl mimicking or criticizing his goals. You might not approve of them or think they are silly, but they are important to him. If he wants to be the best little league baseball coach in your town, be his biggest supporter and fan. If he wants to train to run a marathon, be his biggest cheerleader. Men want and need support from their women. They want to be able to count on you to encourage and be proud of them in their efforts. If you do so, his heart will be full of love for you.

Be his girl; not his mother.
If you come across like your man’s scolding and lecturing mother, the love in his heart for you may dwindle. If you want him to love you more and more, be his girl and not his mother. If he’s a slob and leaves his clothes on the floor, have a mature and calm discussion about the matter instead of yelling at him in a bossy tone. Gentle conversations work best when it comes to things you’re not happy with.

Let him have friends.
A healthy relationship entails each partner having at least one good friend to hang out with. Let your man have his friends and let him hang out with them without trying to make him feel guilty. You are not his whole life and you both need a life outside of each other. Clinginess and neediness are instant turn-offs for most guys. If he knows that you support his need of having friends, he’ll be more apt to adore you so much more.

Trust him.
Jealousy will kill a relationship very fast. If your man knows that you trust him, he’ll be more apt to be more loving toward you. If you’re always questioning him about where he is or who he’s with, he won’t be feeling much love for you. He will feel interrogated and angry. If he hasn’t given you a reason to be untrustworthy, then simply trust him and believe all is well.
I hope these tips have helped you to learn what you can do to invite more love from your man. Here’s to an amazing relationship!

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